Sawal aur jawab
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Rishta dekhte waqt kya dekhna chahiye?
Jawab: Looks, education aur job ke saath yeh bhi dekhein ke woh doosron ke saath kaisa behave karta hai. Kya woh respect se baat karta hai? Kya disagreement mein bhi fair rehta hai?
Riwayat ka aasaan mafhoom: Ek shakhs ne apni beti ki shaadi ke liye Imam Hasan (a.s.) se advice maangi. Imam se manqool hai: aise shakhs ko chunein jo Allah se darta ho. Woh mohabbat karega toh izzat dega, aur agar pasand na bhi kare, toh zulm nahi karega.
Reference: Makarim al-Akhlaq, volume 1, page 446, narration 1534; as cited in Mizan al-Hikmah, ‘Marriage’. Source padhein ↗
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Kya parents ki pasand ke saath ladka-ladki ki marzi bhi zaroori hai?
Jawab: Ji haan. Nikah mein ladka aur ladki, dono ki apni marzi se haan hona zaroori hai. Parents advice dein aur dono ko apni baat kehne ka mauqa dein.
Deeni ruling ka simple summary: Ayatullah Sistani ke mutabiq dono ki consent nikah ki conditions mein shamil hai. Ladki ke father ya paternal grandfather ki permission ke alag rules bhi hain, jo situation ke mutabiq check karne chahiye.
Reference: Ayatullah Sistani, Islamic Laws, ruling 2389(5); father/paternal grandfather ki permission ke liye rulings 2395–2396. Source padhein ↗
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Kisi ki shaadi mein madad karna kaisa kaam hai?
Jawab: Respect aur responsibility ke saath kisi ki shaadi mein madad karna ek nek kaam hai.
Riwayat ka aasaan mafhoom: Imam Ja’far Sadiq (a.s.) se manqool hai ke kisi unmarried shakhs ka nikah karwane wale par Allah Qiyamat ke din apni rehmat ki nazar farmayega.
Reference: Al-Kafi, volume 5, page 331, narration 2; as cited in Mizan al-Hikmah, ‘Marriage’. Source padhein ↗
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Ek ya do aise log chunein jo tawajjoh se sunein, shaadi ki zimmedariyan samajhte hon aur aapki baat apne tak rakhein. Unhein batayein ke aapke liye kya aham hai aur kin sawalon ke jawab abhi chahiye.
Aapas ki samajh, ummeedon aur rozmarra zindagi ke baare mein saaf sawal poochhein. Zaroori maloomat izzat se batayein aur zaati tasveer ya details sirf mili hui ijazat ke mutabiq share karein.
Mashware par ghaur karein aur zaroori maloomat ki tasdeeq karein. Rai alag ho toh uski wajah samjhein. Dono ko bina dabao apni pasand aur marzi kehne ka mauqa dein.
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Shaadi ki rozmarra zindagi mein narmi
Roz ke chhote chhote meharbani ke kaam ghar ka mahool banate hain.
Ek doosre ki baat poori sunein. Mehnat ko pehchanein, shukriya kahein aur poochhein ke din kaisa guzra. Puri tawajjoh se sunna bhi mohabbat aur khayal ka izhar hai.
Ikhtilaf ho toh apni pareshani sukoon se samjhayein aur doosre ki baat sunein. Jazbaat tez hon toh mil kar thoda waqfa lein aur baat dobara karne ka waqt tay karein.
Poochhein ke kis madad ki zaroorat hai: koi kaam baant lena, aaram ka waqt dena ya sirf sun lena. Ghalti tasleem karein, dil se maafi maangein aur waade nibhayein. Narmi ke saath insaaf aur ek doosre ki zarooraton ka ehtram bhi rahe.
Masā’il mein achhe akhlaq ki riwayat padhein
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